How I Know God Knows I Thank Him

Alive or dead, I am not losing or gaining from both of the two. I never know the reason I'm not dead not even what might take me to death. I don't pray to God to give a longer lifetime or to kill me because planned whatever from the beginning as he is alpha& omega. I can change nothing; I keep on asking about how I may conduct myself while I'm still alive. This doesn't allow me to thank and praise God for others passed away and I am alive, others got troubles while I was enjoying life, ...This is not what I am supposed to be ken about. I know that one day they were celebrating while I was struggling on the street; they were old when I was in my mother's womb... I only and mostly thank God when I get the opportunity and power to confess my sins and being forgiven for sinning is normal but repenting is heroism. I also thank for whatever growth I attain to or my wounds, sorrow and sickness healed while I couldn't imagine or see the finish line.

Doesn't God know the start up point to the end? Why then it could be huge surprise for him to bring new ventures or strategies in people's sight or when he eludes something from the earth? If something stays, how will call it a surprise while God is able to do more than that as he made the scriptures written? The surprise is that criminals don't die while he says the reward of sins is death. But saints and innocents go day after day instead. Another surprise is that who goes never looks or comes back even if he goes unhappier or happier with it and when he fought for it. A right or a wrong are the same in human hood. Don't ever get angry with the decorator to remove his flowers on the table for he may be willing to bring new ones or another image there.

May he have needed to change roses to violets or reds. Nothing changes; be when the owner is present or not, but keep in mind that a chronic food brings laziness and it can even cause diarrhea. It’s God who knows what I am and keeps me for it on this earth but for me I am normally a complete human who lives off from humanism. I got no profit in dying or living but one important thing that matters is the profit I am in myself today! I thank God for he made me to be a profit to the world and my job is striving to get profited!

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Inshoza y'Uburinganire n'Ubwuzuzanye

Uburyo bwo kureba itandukaniro ry’abantu hagamijwe gukuraho ubusumbane muri bo.

Ikibazo cyakwibazwa: Kuki ku isi hose umugore ahora ari inyuma? Mu Rwanda rufite miliyoni cumi n’imwe z’abaturage, 51% ni abagore nk’uko byagaragaye muri raporo ya MINALOC 2014 na ho 49% ni abagabo. Byumvikane ngo iyo abantu 51%  bakennye baba bahanze amaso ba bandi 49% basigaye. Ese biroroshye ko abantu mirongo ine n’ikenda(49) bahaza abantu ijana(100)? Uwo ari we wese aha yakwiha igisubizo. N'iyo babishobora, nta bwo byaba ari ikintu kizaramba cyangwa kinaboroheye na mba. Gender( ubumuntu gore/gabo) rero ni iki? Ni isura umuntu ahabwa n’umuryango avukiyemo kandi agakuriramo. Na ho rero igitsina ni urugingo rw'umubiri rugaragaza ko umuntu ari umukobwa cyangwa ko ari umuhungu. Ni igice cy'umubiri gishingirwaho mu iyororoka ry'abantu. 

Reka aha turebe bimwe mu byo impande zombi zikunda (umugabo/umugore) ari na bwo turanamenya icyo buri rumwe rugomba urundi. 

ABAGABO	ABAGORE
Icyubahiro	Gukundwakazwa/guteteshwa
Ubutware/ubuyobozi	Amahoro no kwihangana
Kwitabwaho no kurya neza	Gukora ibintu bitavunanye
Gutsimbarara/kutava ku izima	Kwiyitaho/kurimba
Ubukire (ifaranga)	Gukunda abana n’abagabo

Ibyo banga:

ABAGABO	ABAGORE
Gucibwa inyuma	Ubuharike
Agasuzuguro	Gutotezwa/guhohoterwa
Gukurikiranwa cyane/kugenzurwa	Kutumvwa

Muri rusange abagabo bakunda “icyubahiro” abagore bagakunda “gukundwakazwa no kwitabwaho”. Ibi bishatse kwerekana ko umugabo abaye akunze umugore we, yakubahwa. Kandi umugore abaye yubashye akubahisha umugabo we, na we yakundwakazwa. Icyo aba bantu bahuriyeho bose rero ni "amahoro".

Hari ibintu bitagomba kwitiranywa rero mu iyi nshoza:

SEX (Igitsina)	GENDER (ubumuntu-gore/gabo)
Biravukanwa Urugero: Gutwita, konsa, gutera inda,…	Biratozwa Urugero: kwita ku mwana, kugaburira abana, gukubura,…
Ntibihinduka (umubiri)	Birahinduka Urugero:   - Gutunga urugo                 - Umuco                 - Ikoranabuhanga                 - Kwiga                 - Impinduka ku isi                 - Intambara/amakimbirane…
Ahantu hose ni bimwe	Biterwa n’akarere,imico n’igihe

Ikitonderwa: Kuba rero aba bantu nk’uko bigaragara haruguru batandukanye sosiyeti ntibashe kubigenzura neza, bibyara: Ubusumbane (imbalance), Ivangura (discrimination), Akarengane no guhohoterwa , Kudindira mu iterambere (ubukene), Guhutazwa k’uburenganzira n'ibindi. 

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Ubuyobozi Ni Iki?

Ni uburyo bwo kuganisha abantu ku ntego rusange. Uburyo bwo gufasha abantu gukorera hamwe bakivana mu bibazo. Gutanga umurongo abantu bagenderaho ndetse no kuzana impinduka nziza.

IBIRANGA UMUYOBOZI MWIZA

1. Gutanga ikerekezo, kureba kure, gushyiraho intego buri wese yibonamo (vision setting)
2. Gushyira imbere inyungu z’abo ahagarariye. Urugero: Kwitangira inyungu z’abo ahagarariye no kwitanga (servant leader). Agomba gutekereza abandi bantu mbere ye.
3. Guhagararira abo ayobora atihagararira ubwe
4. Kwiyoroshya (Humility)
5. Kugaragaza ikerekezo mu buryo busobanutse kandi gishoboka kugerwaho (clear communication of vision)
6. Gutuma no kwemera ko habaho impinduka (agent of change)
7. Kudatinya(courageous)
8. Gutanga ikizere (Building hope)
9. Kudacika intege (perseverence)
10. Guhuza ibikorwa, ingufu (coordination)
11. Kuba inyangamugayo (integrity)
12. Kugaragaza ibyagezweho n’inzitizi (accountability)
13. Kwigirira ikizere (selfconfidence)
14. Gukorera mu mucyo (transparency)
15. Kuba afite ubumenyi buhagije (skills) kandi akaba afite icyo arusha abandi.
16. Kugaragaza ibitekerezo byubaka (positive minded)
17. Guhanga udushya (innovation/creativity/proactivity)
18. Kutirundaho inshingano zose (Delegation of responsibilities). “Umuyobozi mwiza                ntavunika.”
19. Gukurikirana no kugenzura (Monitoring and evaluation)
20. Kutagendera ku marangamutima (kutavangura)
21. Gutanga ubwisanzure no kubaka ubushobozi
22. Gutanga raporo
23. Kudahubukira gufata imyanzuro
24. Guhora ari intangarugero (model)
25. Gukorera hamwe n’abandi (team building) 

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